It can be so hard to bear the suffering of our loved ones, even our own suffering might be easier for us to take. Prayers for strength for all.
My Sister's Trials
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, Nov 09 2010 08:59 AM
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Posted 23 February 2012 - 04:41 PM
I know that there are no words to help you bear this pain, Annarchy. I wish there were.
She will remain in my thoughts and prayers....as will you....
She will remain in my thoughts and prayers....as will you....
A Dragon is, after all, the ultimate preparedness weapon. 
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Posted 31 March 2012 - 05:50 PM
You all know I went up to visit her, 'cause I want to remember her alive, her smile, her giggle, her laugh.
They won't take her back to the Cancer Centers of America, because they say she is terminal. They will not replace her port for the chemo, for the same reasons. Her cancer spread to her liver, lungs, and bone marrow, fast acting crud. They gave her 5 months to live, last month. And to think, I actually asked her if she had a 'Bucket List". She laughed, and replied, "I've thought about it."
We talk regularly, most of the time she tells me how painful it is, but, she is trying to keep a positive attitude. She also got to spend a few days with her grandchildren.
So, that is the up to date stuff she is dealing with. I know I will miss her, however, I also will be grateful when she is no longer in pain from the crud.
They won't take her back to the Cancer Centers of America, because they say she is terminal. They will not replace her port for the chemo, for the same reasons. Her cancer spread to her liver, lungs, and bone marrow, fast acting crud. They gave her 5 months to live, last month. And to think, I actually asked her if she had a 'Bucket List". She laughed, and replied, "I've thought about it."
We talk regularly, most of the time she tells me how painful it is, but, she is trying to keep a positive attitude. She also got to spend a few days with her grandchildren.
So, that is the up to date stuff she is dealing with. I know I will miss her, however, I also will be grateful when she is no longer in pain from the crud.
Words, are spirits.
God's, are Life.
God's, are Life.
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Posted 31 March 2012 - 07:09 PM
I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this!
I remember when the hospital told my cousin not to come back because she was terminal and there was nothing more they could do for her. She had kidney disease. It was a shock to be told that but in the long run, hospice was much better for her at home especially when it came to pain management.
I feel like you, as much as I love and miss her...I wouldn't wish her back here. It's still hard though.
I remember when the hospital told my cousin not to come back because she was terminal and there was nothing more they could do for her. She had kidney disease. It was a shock to be told that but in the long run, hospice was much better for her at home especially when it came to pain management.
I feel like you, as much as I love and miss her...I wouldn't wish her back here. It's still hard though.
You can't always get what you want, babe
But if you try sometimes, you just might find
You get what you need.
~Mick and Keith~
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Posted 01 April 2012 - 04:53 PM
I'm so sorry for your and her pain, hon. Still praying.
"Have mercy on me, my God, have mercy on me, for in you I take refuge. I will take refuge in the shadow of your wings until the disaster has passed." Ps 57:1
"Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise,making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. " Eph 5:15,16
"Do not be afraid because of the words that you have heard" 2 Kings 19:6
Have you hugged your goose today?
"Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise,making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. " Eph 5:15,16
"Do not be afraid because of the words that you have heard" 2 Kings 19:6
Have you hugged your goose today?
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Posted 01 April 2012 - 06:12 PM
I am sorry this is happening but I also see that you and your sister have a good relationship and I can also see you cherish that.
The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overcome it.
John 1:5
John 1:5
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Posted 12 April 2012 - 11:50 AM
I am so sorry. I know that the word "terminal" is one of the worst you can hear in a situation like this. Please let her know that we are praying for her in a mighty way here on Mrs. S....and of course, for you too, Annarchy.
A Dragon is, after all, the ultimate preparedness weapon.
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Posted 22 June 2012 - 08:14 AM
I started this thread November 2010. I hoped for the best, they would remove the cancer and she would live on cancer free.
Over time, I have watched, prayed and continued to hope, even when she almost died from the "treatments" they administered.
Her DH called a couple of weeks ago and said he had talked with her hospice care giver, asking "How long do you think she has?" The answer was "Maybe a month." Her DH said they were not going to tell her because she is still trying to make plans for the summer, fall, and future.
Calling her is a challenge now, she sleeps most of the time and only wakes up to eat. Even at those times, she does not recognize/remember I have called.
I hesitated to post because it breaks my heart and I could not find the words to say.
God gave me time with her I would otherwise never have had. Time to talk, laugh and cry together. Someday I will tell about the "desert of chocolate". A memory I will cherish.
Over time, I have watched, prayed and continued to hope, even when she almost died from the "treatments" they administered.
Her DH called a couple of weeks ago and said he had talked with her hospice care giver, asking "How long do you think she has?" The answer was "Maybe a month." Her DH said they were not going to tell her because she is still trying to make plans for the summer, fall, and future.
Calling her is a challenge now, she sleeps most of the time and only wakes up to eat. Even at those times, she does not recognize/remember I have called.
I hesitated to post because it breaks my heart and I could not find the words to say.
God gave me time with her I would otherwise never have had. Time to talk, laugh and cry together. Someday I will tell about the "desert of chocolate". A memory I will cherish.
Words, are spirits.
God's, are Life.
God's, are Life.
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Posted 22 June 2012 - 08:50 AM
I am sorry this is happening, but it is good you have good memories with her. Cherish that. Cancer is such a difficult thing to deal with. It is hard to accept, the deterioration going on so fast, but in time you will come to terms with it. It's ok to grieve. I know it's hard to switch gears this fast. Still, her heart knows it is you.
The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overcome it.
John 1:5
John 1:5
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Posted 22 June 2012 - 11:51 AM
So sorry, hon. HUGS and PRAYERS.
"Have mercy on me, my God, have mercy on me, for in you I take refuge. I will take refuge in the shadow of your wings until the disaster has passed." Ps 57:1
"Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise,making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. " Eph 5:15,16
"Do not be afraid because of the words that you have heard" 2 Kings 19:6
Have you hugged your goose today?
"Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise,making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. " Eph 5:15,16
"Do not be afraid because of the words that you have heard" 2 Kings 19:6
Have you hugged your goose today?
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Posted 23 June 2012 - 05:38 PM
"We cannot defend freedom abroad by deserting it at home." Edward R. Murrow (1908-1965)
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Posted 24 June 2012 - 09:47 AM
I know that there are no words that can assuage your grief right now.
It is so hard when your loved one is on the twilight path.
Please know that we are praying for your sister and for you. There are so many different types of pain at this point.
God bless you with love, sweet memories, and peace. If you need anything, we're here.
It is so hard when your loved one is on the twilight path.
Please know that we are praying for your sister and for you. There are so many different types of pain at this point.
God bless you with love, sweet memories, and peace. If you need anything, we're here.
A Dragon is, after all, the ultimate preparedness weapon.
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Posted 24 June 2012 - 12:41 PM
Psalm 27:13
I would have lost heart, unless I had believed
That I would see the goodness of the Lord
In the land of the living.
I would have lost heart, unless I had believed
That I would see the goodness of the Lord
In the land of the living.
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