We opted to pay the money for a Safeway thanksgiving this year - $40 for a turkey, spuds, gravy, dressing, cranberry sauce, and rolls. We're adding some green beans, a salad, and relish tray. Oh, and it came with pumpkin pie. It's enough to feed 6-8, so that will be enough for the 4 of us and leftovers. I'm making a pumpkin cake roll (from the Libby's pumpkin label) and that will be the holiday. I'm so glad to not mess with a turkey....
Yesterday I had a "day of beauty".
My nails were shot from all the cleaning, so I had a manicure and pedicure. I got my hair done - I had to because that smell was still there. I now feel "beautified" and me again. I'm so grateful that nasty smell is out of my hair. Today I did a couple of errands and ran my parents' paperwork by social services. I was able to chat with my friend who works there and we made plans for Christmas Day.
Then, my husband drove me for 2 more errands, we were home at 3 and ended up taking a nap
. . . . for 3 hours. 
I 'm realize that it's okay that I'm exhausted but with the rest, I'm better able to face the disaster that is my own home - the piles of laundry, bags of my parents' things that need washing, and boxes of canning from my parents' house that are in the kitchen that have to go into the basement. By the end of this weekend, my house will be clean and I will be on top of things again. I contacted my professor and told him the truth - that for the past 3 weeks he's been out of the country, I was consumed with helping my parents move. He was understanding, but again reminded me of my deadlines. I must say that I now have a deeper understanding of what miracles can take place in a short amount of time with help. This whole experience has motivated me to finish and become DONE with my professional work. If I can find a place for my parents, move them, consolidate their stuff, and clean the old place inside of 4 weeks, I think I can finish my dissertation this year.
With the help of G-d of course, and some friends. 
I have to say - the main disaster during the move was someone backing into my car. I drive a humble car - a 98 Chevy Metro that is pushing 230,000 miles. What made me mad was that it was a "hit and run" and no one left info. The damage done to the car exceeds the value of the car. It honestly isn't worth fixing. Since the ding (which folded the left front bumper and fender), I've noticed a lot more rattling, odd noises, and weird sounds. Something tells me I may be getting a different car soon.
I can not thank all of you enough for your ears and hearts and advice. It was one of the 'lifelines' that got me through this difficult time. I'm so grateful.
Many hugs & thankful prayers!
