Are you a Lover or a Fighter or Both

[Dee]

I'm a scrapper I have to admit! But for all the right reasons! With some lovin attached! SO I have the best of Both Worlds.

[SoCalGal]

I can vouch for that. Actually she's as much a lover as a fighter.

[Deblyn]

I'm a bit of both - the hard bit is trying to work out which bit I should be when!!

[HapyGirl]

Definately both! Working on being more of a lover, fighting isn't getting me anywhere!

[Guest Guest]

I fight with my mouth but am a coward when it comes to the other kind of fighting.

[mrszouave]

[Guest Guest]

I am both, but more of a lover than a fighter. I used to be total lover but after being taken advantage of for many years and treated badly by men in my past; I have learned how to be a fighter when i am backed into a corner with no other way out. Then I fight swiftly, strong and end it quickly. I usually hit the person by surprised because fighter is not usually seen in my personality, so I catch the opressor of guard when I go into fight mode. But I also give plenty of warnings before i go into fight mode so the reciever has had plenty of forwarning before they get the blunt of my saying leave me alone, I have had enough.

 

I am usually try to be very careful to not go to far. Or take out on them things from my past. I try to deal with the situation at hand, stand my ground, let them know knock it off, I've had enough, what ever and then go back to being myself hoping I got the message across and don't have to go there again. I will fight when I have to but don't want to.

 

Hill